Learning to live Abundantly Boundaried is the way of living and loving beyond codependency.
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The trouble with codependency is that we can't "stop" being codependent.
Codependency is the way of relating that we know how to do. The only way to stop relating codependently is to stop relating altogether.
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Perhaps this is the driving force behind our stewardship of this abundance—always creating more "space" from others, as if relationship is a burden.
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In actuality, this space is killing us. We are living a loneliness epidemic, craving skin on our skin.
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And we aren't willing to go back to codependency. What's a world to do?
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We need a positive target, a way TO relate, ways of meeting everyday moments that are something other than codependency.
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I call this way, as I translate it and offer it to the world, The Way of Devotion.
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This is the way of living devoted to the experience I'm having right now.
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When I devote to my experience, I notice the way I currently meet each experience.
The foundation of this is to tune into a fresh yet ancient understanding of boundaries.
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The truth of boundaries is all around us—boundaries are the location of interaction between distinct objects in the world. Boundaries are points of connection.
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When I come to understand that my boundaries are where and how I interact with the world, I unlock my empowerment to live a life I feel devoted to living.
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Paradoxically, as these boundaries change everything, most things remain the same.
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Existing relationships strengthen, I come to value the life I am living exactly as I live it, I begin receiving MORE from all that I already have now.
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Living the Way of Devotion puts me in a beingness of love and appreciation. I walk through life recognizing what's working, what's there to love me, what I'm enjoying, and place all of my attention there.
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I cure codependency for good when I come to trust myself and others to the experiences we walk toward and choose for ourselves and are inevitably served.
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I live Abundantly Boundaried, and effortlessly curate my experience.
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What does it mean to really have self worth?
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I'll tell you what it's not—it's not just thinking nice thoughts about myself.
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What does it mean to have high standards for relationships?
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It's not a checklist of their qualities and attributes.
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What does it mean to have great boundaries?
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It's not a set of rules or a fortress of protection.
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If you're ready to live beyond codependency, in the Way of Devotion, it all begins with becoming Abundantly Boundaried.
Detachment—Desireless?
For me, detachment is not about being desireless or divorced from the world and others, it's about being aware of and in relationship with reality and the world.
I have egoic desires—
I desire to have a thing, to go to a place, to be with a person. All day I have these desires, and I mostly just completely indulge them. Egoic is not a swear word, it's just an awareness of self-interest and preference. I have every right to pursue my preference. My life is for me. My body is for me. My experiences are for me.
And, in right relationship with reality and the world, I pursue my preference with abandon. That is, I abandon the idea that my preference is correct or righteous, or that violations of my preferences are evidence of something going wrong in the world. I pursue my preference simply—it's just what I want to do. I'm always doing something!
My preferences are sacred to and for me, and I have every right to use my time, energy, and attention in ways I prefer at all times.
AND it is correct and true and simply reality that the world does not conform to my preferences, that I will not be given my way, that in thousands of ways each day my preferences will be violated and this is a feature of reality, not a bug. I can have the right to have what I desire and not the ability to have it! This is simply a truth in the world.
I am detached from the outcomes of my egoic desires, because that is part of who I want to be. Who I want to be—that is the authentic desire which ideally gives rise to the forms of my egoic desires, if all's in integrity.
Who I want to be in the world is my deeper desire, and it applies as I receive my egoic desires and as I perceive myself deprived of those egoic desires. Who do I want to be while I get what I want? Who do I want to be while I don't get what I want?
Who do I want to be in this world which has so much to offer, so much that is inside my preferences and SO MUCH MORE that is outside my preferences? Who do I want to be in this world which was not designed for me, but is habitable and maybe even enjoyable, to the extent that I curate it?
Devotional Relationships, Here and Now
When we aspire to "Secure Attachment," the love and connection we want are sequestered away as prizes we only get when we secure Attachment.
This aspiration, this belief in a journey via which I can get my relational needs met, is a living lack throughout my being while I experience that I am not-having.
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This lack, then, is the context in which I spend these precious and fleeting moments of life. While each moment offers me Everything available here now, I go to the part of me imagining something better and look on this moment with critical eyes.
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When we relentlessly inquire of this desire for Attachment, we find it is a desire for human connection that provides for and preserves our sovereignty.
When we call this flavor of connection into the here and now, command that it MUST be available, as Everything is available, only here now, we translate lack into a positive, achievable target of sufficiency and contentment.
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This allows us to live in relationship to the now-moment of life, Securely Detached, guided by the real intimacy of loving what is.
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Detachment is a spiritual concept about how to be in relationship, as a human, to all that IS.
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In Secure Detachment, my expectations of relationship are informed by existential truths. I don't ask that relationships make me safe or take my pain away, I acknowledge that danger, grief, and pain are facts of existence.
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This is the Timeless Technology of Right Relationship which brings us beyond codependency as a premise and practice of relationship, allowing us access to relational abundance.
This technology guides how we steward our unprecedented material abundance. Rather than using the technology of independence to live independently, we become capable of leveraging our ability to be independent to opt in to interdependence with exactly the right people.
Offerings
1:1 Mentorship
Work closely with Hannah for 3-12 months in an Intuitive Unlimited container to reshape your relationships on every fractal.
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We move slowly and gently through the inner world, recognizing integrity and dropping away delusion in a process of exquisite refinement.
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This work offers clients ultimate freedom in the form of Radical Responsibility and relentless empowerment.
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Clients get in touch with their truest and most authentic desire, which is not about the things of the world I want, but about who I want to be in this life.
Masterclass Curriculum
Live masterclasses on zoom, offering a wealth of information and practical wisdom for living secure detachment to call in your decentralized, hyperlocal Village right now.
The Village Principles Curriculum elucidates 3 Principles over 12 modules to reshape how we practice relationships of all forms.
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After your first masterclass, you may receive an invitation to subscribe and become part of the community forming around this radical new way of relating. Subscribers have access to recorded calls. **Call recordings will not be provided to participants who do not subscribe.**
Online Courses
Online courses provide content you can consume at your leisure.
Abundantly Boundaried is the foundational course to reshape your boundaries to bring your relationships beyond codependency into mutual empowerment.
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The Feminine Cycle of Manifestation puts you in touch with how reality becomes real, and how you relate to it as that happens.
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Masculine Pole is about appreciating men and understanding masculinity to promote union.
Presented by
Hannah Aline Taylor
Hannah Aline Taylor is a writer and thought leader who guides clients in the post-transformational space. Hannah's work invites brilliant individuals to tune into the Timeless Technology of Right Relationship to live integrated and meaningful lives in relationships of all forms, empowering them to cultivate aligned community and serve the world exquisitely. Hannah has woven her worldview out of personal experiences of grief and loss, history serving developmentally disabled adults, and years of work in juvenile corrections to deliver a framework for life which provides for peace in the midst of life's harshest realities.